14 February, 2024

Healthy money habits for couples

First Financial Team

In a world where February means commercialised prompts nudge us to express love and appreciation, it’s essential to recognise that such sentiments should actually be a daily habit. Similar consistency is key when building healthy money habits for couples and forging a strong financial future together.

At First Financial, we empower individuals and spouses to retire on their terms. We offer tailored solutions that align with your goals, dreams and values, from superannuation to investment strategies. But when it comes to the everyday basics of money, here are our top tips for couples.

Open communication and goal setting

As in all aspects of human relationships, communication is key. Regularly discuss financial goals, priorities and concerns. Set some shared short-term and long-term objectives. Whether saving for a vacation, a down payment on a house or retirement, having shared objectives helps create a unified approach to money management.

Transparency is important. Be open and honest with your partner about your individual financial situation regarding debt, income and spending habits. Honesty builds trust and ensures that both parties are on the same page, minimising misunderstandings and facilitating better decision-making.

Effective communication is the cornerstone of successful relationships and financial wellbeing. Create an environment of support and understanding. This will strengthen the bonds that will prove crucial in navigating life’s challenges together with resilience and harmony.

Create a budget together

Building a budget together assists in the integration of individual spending habits and financial priorities. This collaborative effort also promotes shared responsibility in managing household finances. Both partners should actively participate not only in budgeting, but in all aspects of financial planning, including investment decisions, retirement planning and debt management.

Try to allocate funds purposefully within the budget to cover essential expenses first, then factor in discretionary spending and prioritise savings. By completing this allocation together, you’ll foster a sense of fairness and balance, and you’ll ensure your joint goals align with your financial resources.

Establish a routine for regularly reviewing and adjusting the budget as needed. Life circumstances change, and financial goals may evolve over time. By staying proactive and adaptable, a family budget remains a dynamic tool that reflects current priorities.

Emergency fund, debt minimisation and regular financial health checks

Numerous studies from around the world indicate that financial tension contributes to 20-40% of divorces. That’s because money often serves as a catalyst for stress and disagreements. Therefore, establishing a safety net is crucial to mitigate these stressors whenever possible. Both partners should always feel secure in the family’s financial situation.

Stress often stems from debt, so make efforts to minimise individual and family debt. Collaborate to pay off any existing liabilities and establish a plan to manage and, if possible, consolidate debts to streamline payments and reduce interest.

Regularly review debt repayment plans as you do with your budget. Adjust as needed due to changing circumstances, such as unexpected expenses or windfalls. Discuss financial progress regularly, focusing on income and expenses.

Insurance and superannuation

Prioritising adequate insurance is a vital money habit for couples. It creates another financial safety net, protecting against unforeseen events and potential hardships. Whether for health, life, property, income protection or total and permanent disability, insurance coverage contributes to overall financial wellbeing and instils confidence in navigating unexpected circumstances.

To strengthen your financial future together, explore effective superannuation strategies as a couple. A unified approach ensures long-term financial freedom and security, offering various options to maximise superannuation balances. This consideration is especially important when there’s a significant imbalance between partners’ balances.

Superannuation ensures not only long-term financial security but also empowers couples to make informed decisions about their retirement. By aligning efforts and maximising contributions, partners can better plan for the retirement years ahead.

Celebrate the wins, learn together

Celebrating financial milestones together is more than just a moment of joy—it’s a psychological boost. Acknowledging achievements fosters a positive mindset, strengthens the emotional connection between partners and encourages ongoing financial collaboration and goal pursuit. Make time to celebrate, whether it’s a new investment, paying off a mortgage or clearing another debt.

Life is an ongoing journey, offering endless opportunities for learning and growth. The process becomes even more enjoyable when shared with a partner. Enhance your financial knowledge as a couple by delving into resources about personal finance. Whether through reading informative materials, tuning into financial programs or engaging in discussions with a knowledgeable financial adviser, actively invest in expanding your financial understanding.

Talk to the financial and retirement planning professionals

While financial stress or disagreements on how to handle financial matters can lead to significant marital discord, this can be avoided by establishing healthy money habits as soon as possible. The journey towards financial well-being is a shared investment in a stronger, more connected relationship, which benefits more than your bank account.

Regardless of your current position on the wealth journey, as an individual or a couple, First Financial can assist you in achieving your desired retirement. Planning for retirement is a step you can take at any stage—it’s never too early or too late to start.

To learn more about healthy money habits or superannuation strategies for couples, speak to an experienced member of our team today.

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