22 January, 2024

Understanding the emotional side of finances in retirement and the psychology of money

First Financial Team

Let’s talk about Sarah and Mary, neighbours with vastly different approaches to retirement and the psychology of money. Sarah, armed with modest savings from a simpler life, gracefully navigated her golden years—travelling, enjoying hobbies and cherishing time with loved ones. As she bid farewell, she not only left behind memories but also a modest financial legacy for her family. On the other hand, we have Mary, a high-income earner and savvy investor, who spent her days carefully safeguarding every dollar, driven by the constant concern of making her fortune last.

While Mary likely left a commendable inheritance, you might ask, did she live life to the fullest? At First Financial, we specialise in helping clients retire on their terms with sufficient funds for their preferred lifestyle. In our initial meetings, we discuss priorities, desires and the personal psychology shaping money and retirement.

The trade-off between living now and saving for later

Surprisingly, government research reveals a rising trend among Australians, where a considerable number are passing away in retirement with a significant portion of their wealth untouched. This phenomenon hints at a prevalent inclination among individuals to cling to and exercise caution with their retirement funds.

Retirees often find themselves at a crossroads, weighing the choice between relishing the present, reaping the rewards of decades of hard work, and adopting a conservative approach to save for an uncertain future. This trade-off represents one of the most intricate decision-making processes in retirement.

At First Financial, we understand that the fear of running out of money is real. That’s why we assist clients in striking an equilibrium that enables living in the present but also safeguards their financial future. This includes choosing the appropriate investment options that align with goals and dreams.

The influence of the nest egg mentality

In financial planning, language wields a major influence in shaping mindsets. Take, for instance, the common phrase ‘nest egg’ used to describe retirement savings—it goes beyond mere semantics. This expression plants the seed of a preservation mindset, fostering a subconscious urge to protect and maintain the nest egg.

The inclination to preserve accumulated funds frequently results in conservative spending and ill-advised investment choices. Beyond limiting the enjoyment of retirement, these decisions can incur long-term costs, particularly when investment mistakes come into play.

We guide our clients to view their financial portfolio not just as a nest egg to preserve and protect but as a dynamic tool for realising dreams and aspirations. This shift in perspective empowers retirees to strike a balance between financial security and the enjoyment of their golden years.

What you leave behind, financially

“In our financial planning discussions, we often inquire about the desire to leave a financial legacy for beneficiaries,” says James Wrigley, one of our Principals at First Financial. “The overwhelming majority say they would like to leave their home and perhaps a bit more for their kids. However, not as many are focused on preserving every dollar or growing it into a large inheritance.”

Legacy planning involves a subtle blend of emotion and financial precision. Your goals and dreams not only contribute to the emotional fabric but also guide practical choices, resulting in a legacy that authentically reflects your financial vision.

As we navigate the transition of wealth, a key consideration is fostering financial independence. This aspect of legacy planning focuses on empowering your beneficiaries with knowledge, preparedness and the ability to make their own sound financial decisions, a powerful psychological and financial legacy that extends beyond the mere transference of funds.

Addressing fears and maximising returns

Retirement often sparks the pervasive fear of running out, an anxiety about outliving financial resources. Mitigating this fear requires a careful assessment and proactive planning for retirement expenses, striking a balance between income growth and investments to ensure a future without compromising life’s enjoyments.

Retirees earn returns on their investments through various avenues, including interest, dividends and growth. Interest & dividend payments provide a steady income stream to help fund retirement. Additionally, growth in the value of assets, such as stocks or properties, adds another dimension to returns. Despite these avenues, there is often a psychological reluctance among retirees to sell down assets, impacting investment decisions, and potentially hindering the retirement you had hoped for.

It’s also important to exercise caution and avoid the high-yield trap.

“A lot of people will try to earn as high an income as possible because they know income is replaceable year after year. But that can push them down a narrow path of looking at really high-yielding stock. That stock may well be high-yielding because last year it paid a normal dividend but this year it’s been a disaster of a business and stock prices have halved. So getting into the high-yield trap is exactly that. It’s a trap.”

Talk to the retirement planning experts

The psychology of money explores the emotional and behavioural factors influencing individuals’ financial decisions, including attitudes, beliefs and behavioural patterns that shape financial choices and outcomes. In retirement planning, it impacts investment strategies and spending patterns both leading up to and during the retirement years.

At First Financial, we understand the nuances of the psychology of money in retirement planning. Our experienced team listens attentively to each client, creating a personalised strategy to help them achieve their financial goals and enjoy their chosen lifestyle without concerns about depleting funds. Contact us to learn more today.

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